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![]() Clockwise from Paula in the straw hat: Paula, Heidi, Tracy, Rita, Laura, Kim, Beatriz, Elaine The Ottawa Kick Butt Sistas. In the case of one Canadian Life Makeover Group, the name says it all. They are “The Ottawa Kick Butt Sistas.” Together since 2001, the nine energetic, close-knit members meet regularly in person and online. Some of the members, Kim, Tracy and Paula, took a break from butt kicking to fill us in. Q: You use an introduction letter and special welcome meetings to bring people to the group. Tell us about it. A: Kim - The challenge was how to integrate new members into the group, while maintaining a sense of safety for the older members. The group worked together to create an introduction letter and decided to hold bi-monthly welcome meetings for new contacts. The welcome meetings are much the same as any meeting – people get to know up front what some of the expectations are. Q: Give us some kick butt details of your successes. A: Paula - I discovered that I wanted to act. It was a dream I had buried when I was 23 years old. I didn't think I was good enough, pretty enough, or thin enough. I decided that if I didn't go for my dream now, I would always regret it. So, I had the group's support to get started and I hung on to their belief in me every time I doubted myself. A: Tracy - There was a take action challenge from “Life Makeovers” to bring your secret desire out in the open. That was the very first time I had let my desire to write romance novels be known. Without the group and their comment and cheerleading at that meeting, I honestly don't know when I would have started taking this dream seriously! I’m now working on my first manuscript. I am enjoying every minute that I can devote to it. A: Laura - For me, the support resulted in me being able to take the step to book a trip to another country to learn about holistic healing. At first it seemed impossible and out of reach. I did not have anyone to go with and I had never traveled on my own. The support of my Life Makeover friends allowed me to overcome the fears I had. The excitement shared by the group about this adventure has made the planning and anticipation even more fun! Q: You’ve accomplished so much, but haven’t done it alone. how has the group support made a difference? A: Paula - I hadn't done a play in fifteen years. I will never forget taking my curtain call and seeing my group “sistas” in the front row applauding. Tears still come to my eyes when I think of it. A: Tracy - The support and accountability from the group are ongoing – they frequently ask me about how the writing is progressing. We have a running joke that when the movie rights to my romance novel are purchased, Paula gets the role of Chloe – the heroine in my novel!
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