fathima
03-16-2008, 12:04 AM
In my office i have a room which i share with another girl. We've known each other for 5 years and she has been my room mate for about 2 years. we 2 are the only ones in this room. i work Monday to Friday - morning till noon.My room mate has alot of PR and people think she is a "nice" girl. Most people tell private things to her. But i always disliked her a bit because she back bites. Only about some people. Especially if she doesnt like them. she tells me alot about the "others" to me. she also never talks directly. Always hints. so i dislike her. i also have realised that she cant handle defeat very well.
Last week we were talking about marriages and how we met our husbands
because we were discussing about another girl. I told her that I instantly liked my husband’s voice after I heard his voice over the phone (even though ours was a marriage proposal) and we both were instantly attracted when we met (now its 4 years since we are married and its good) She casually said something to the effect “Judging people by phone is not good. You have to see them and take a decision”. I felt so hurt. Obviously whether I did judge or not is not her business but I felt she wanted subdue my “Happy” feeling (because she is Jealous). Last year when I told her I’m going for a holiday with my husband to a particular hotel, she told me that that hotel brings bad luck to couples and I was so upset I cancelled my trip. My husband was very angry with me about it. But I was just upset.
So I quietly told her about both instances where she hurt me. She said she did not mean it. Even though I feel good for opening up with her I can’t stand her anymore. As she is my room mate I meet her every day but I despise her more andI feel sick being stuck with her in the same room . pls advice.
Last week we were talking about marriages and how we met our husbands
because we were discussing about another girl. I told her that I instantly liked my husband’s voice after I heard his voice over the phone (even though ours was a marriage proposal) and we both were instantly attracted when we met (now its 4 years since we are married and its good) She casually said something to the effect “Judging people by phone is not good. You have to see them and take a decision”. I felt so hurt. Obviously whether I did judge or not is not her business but I felt she wanted subdue my “Happy” feeling (because she is Jealous). Last year when I told her I’m going for a holiday with my husband to a particular hotel, she told me that that hotel brings bad luck to couples and I was so upset I cancelled my trip. My husband was very angry with me about it. But I was just upset.
So I quietly told her about both instances where she hurt me. She said she did not mean it. Even though I feel good for opening up with her I can’t stand her anymore. As she is my room mate I meet her every day but I despise her more andI feel sick being stuck with her in the same room . pls advice.