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Life Makeover for the Year 2012

Week 27 – Nora Ephron’s List: What would you miss?

July 1, 2012

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Topic of the Week

Nora Ephron’s List

As many of you know, the creative genius, Nora Ephron died last week after a long illness.  Nora was responsible for such wonderful films as Heartburn, When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seattle, You’ve Got Mail, and her latest movie, Julie & Julia.

While reading about Nora’s vast, accomplished career, I came across an excerpt from her most recent book, I Remember Nothing: and Other Reflections.  The excerpt made me stop and think about my life.  It was a list of what she would and would not miss.  It’s the “What I Will Miss” list that inspired this week’s newsletter.  Have a look:


My kids
The concept of waffles
A walk in the park
The idea of a walk in the park
The park
Shakespeare in the Park
The bed
Reading in bed
The view out the window
Twinkle lights
Dinner at home just the two of us
Dinner with friends
Dinner with friends in cities where none of us lives
Next year in Istanbul
Pride and Prejudice
The Christmas tree
Thanksgiving dinner
One for the table
The dogwood
Taking a bath
Coming over the bridge to Manhattan

As I read through Nora’s list, I thought about the little things that bring me joy that I’d miss – the things that often go unnamed as important.  Things like a bird’s nest under construction that captures my attention each morning while I enjoy a cup of tea.  The way my cat Poupon covers his eyes with his paw when he naps, making me smile every time, regardless of how many times I see him do it.  Or, trees billowing in my backyard like soft sheets on a clothesline when a strong breeze blows.  And, of course, the beautiful, nuanced moments that occur when I connect with others.

I wonder what you’d miss?

And I wonder something else:  I wonder why we give so much attention to things that are not on the list.

Just something to think about today…

Take Action Challenge

Make a list of at least twenty things you’d miss if you were no longer here.  Look for the teeny, tiny details that bring meaning and joy.  It’s where you’ll find what matters most.

This week’s video is from the “Pioneer of the Year,” Dorothy Custer, a 100 year-old firecracker.  You’ll find it here.  Thanks, Kelly!

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