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"Good Girl No More" T-Shirt

Kerri, Melissa, PJ, and Cheryl

Years ago, when I hired my first coach, I learned a valuable lesson about giving away too much of my time and energy to others.  During that period of my life I was an "automatic yes" machine.  I gladly took on the role of hero and I was proud of it. 

While I loved feeling needed and important (the seductive benefit of being a hero), there was one little problem.  When my coach asked me to tell him what wasn't working in my life, I had an equally long list of complaints.  I never had time for me.  I was tired of helping everyone else out with their lives while never having enough energy left over for my dreams.  Several of my relationships felt like one-way streets and they weren't headed in my direction :). 

During this initial coaching session, after listening to my list of achievements and complaints, my coach said, with a hint of sarcasm in his voice, "Wow, Cheryl, you really do a great job of taking care of a lot of people, don't you?  You're such a good person."  Upon hearing his assessment I have to admit I felt seen and acknowledged by him - and it felt great.  Until he delivered the next line . . .

"And your good girl role is going to rob you of your life." 

My triumph quickly turned to tears as I took in the truth of that statement.  He was right.  I was a good girl.  I had been all my life and it was costing me far more than I realized. 

Feeling so affected by our conversation, at the end of our first session I made a sign with this symbol that hung in my little apartment for years.  I used it to remind myself that I needed to come first if I was ever going to live an authentic life and be there for others out of love and caring instead of a hidden agenda (to be liked and appreciated). 

Are you a good girl (or good boy)?  Does it feel like your life is all about everyone else but you?  Well now's your chance to proclaim to the world that you're ready to give up that role.  Join the "Good Girl No More" club! 

Our fun new t-shirts make great gifts for:

Life Makeover Group Members

Friends who need a self-care reminder

Clients

Sisters

Mom

Co-workers

Book club members

You!

. . . and anyone who needs to let go of the good girl role

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Pre-shrunk. 100% cotton. Women's cut.  Sizes - Small, Medium, Large, Extra Large, and 2XL.

Size Chart:

Small: 4-6
Medium: 8-10
Large: 12-14
X-Large: 16-18
2XL: 20-22

Please list your size preference in the comments section of the order form.

$14.95 each